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Relationships and Forms of Address[edit | edit source]

The meaning of terms used for relationships has changed over time. We have a limited definition of the term ‘in-laws’ as those related in certain ways by marriage. A novice family historian is shocked at her first encounter with a 3-year-old daughter-in-law, and puzzled by a man describing his father’s new wife as his mother-in-law. In former times the term encompassed all those who ‘in the eyes of the law’ were related, thus a step-child or step-mother fit the definition. Likewise the terms sister and brother would be used for sister-in-law and brother-in-law.

Before the 18th century the terms nephew and niece meant any descendant or younger relative, not just the child of a brother or sister. Likewise uncle and aunt could refer to any older relative. Beware also the ‘courtesy’ aunts and uncles, usually close friends of their parents in a time when children would not address an adult by their first name. Many a child has thought they had a rich relative when mother talked of ‘going to see uncle,’ whose residence contained a large amount of valuable silver and jewellery. Only later in life did they realize that mother was making her regular visit to the pawnshop!

Most people don’t know the difference between a second cousin and a cousin twice removed. Cousins who happen to be somewhat older than oneself tend to be called ‘aunts’ and ‘uncles’ and any relative roughly the same age is referred to as a ‘cousin.’
This can really cause confusion for the family historian trying to sort out the family tree. Never take a stated relationship at its face value. On the other hand, “a cousin Betty” is a euphemism for a half-witted person.

Goodman and Goodwife, (nicknamed ‘Goodie’), were forms of address in mediaeval and early modern times for the master or mistress of the house who were below the status of gentleman and gentlewoman. In the early modern period the title Mr. is seen in parish registers and other documents. It referred then to someone of at least minor gentry status, such as churchwardens, mayors, masters of guilds, city livery companies and magistrates. Mistress or Mrs. or Dame were used for a married or unmarried woman of the same status. The term Miss for a spinster only appeared in the early 18th century. Mr. was also formerly a courtesy title for any priest with a Master of Arts degree, whilst the title Sir before a priest’s name indicated that he was a non-graduate or had only a bachelor’s degree. From the later 18th century Mr. has been used for any untitled male, and Master for a boy.

Teachers prior to the 20th century may have titled themselves Professor, whether male or female, and would be addressed as Sir or Madam. This form of address does not mean that they have the title Sir which is acquired by receiving a knighthood. Cecil Humphery-Smith (Something to Think About. Family Tree Magazine Vol15 #1, page 48.1998) explains more about these intricacies with his usual humour.

Names for Days[edit | edit source]

The following are often mentioned in documents to which the genealogist refers, so a little explanation was thought helpful. The chart below comprises general names whilst Saints’ days are considered in the next section. The names of the quarter days, especially Lady Day and Michaelmas, are particularly important as they are frequently the occasions for payments of wages or rents etc. Otherwise you may interpret them like one novice who reported that ‘Lady Day and Michael Mas were receiving a lot of money every year’!

Chart:
Names for Days

Name Day
Advent Sunday Nearest Sunday to 30 Nov
All Fools Day 1 April
Annunciation 25 March Lady Day
Ascension Day Thursday 40 days after Easter
Ash Wednesday 1st Day of Lent. Pope Gregory the Great sprinkled ashes on penitents' heads
Assumption 15 August
Balaclava Day Army slang for pay day
Beltane
Bealtaine
1 May. One of the old Scottish quarter Days. Old May Day Festival in Ireland
Blue Monday Monday before Lent when churches were decorated in blue.
Bonfire Night 5 Nov. Guy Fawkes Day
Bounds Thursday Ascension Day, on which parish bonds were traditionally perambulated.
Burns Night 25 January. Robert Burns birthday.
Candlemas Day 23 February. A Quarter Day in Scotland
Childermas 28 Dec. Commemorates slaughter of Holy Innocents by Herod.
Christmas Day 25 December. A Quarter Day in England, Wales and Ireland; one of the few holidays.
Corpus Christi Thursday after Trinity Sunday.
Dog Days 3-11 July
Empire Day 24 May
Encaenia Day on which the anniversary of a church's dedication is celebrated.
Epiphany 6 January
Fasten Tuesday Shrove Tuesday
Glorious Twelfth 12 July on which Orangemen celebrate the Battle of the Boyne, Ireland. Can also refer to 12 October, opening of grouse shooting season.
Gooding Day 21 December on which alms were collected.
Gowkie or Gowkin Day 1 April. Scottish term of April Fools Day
Green Thursday Maundy Thursday
Guy Fawkes Day 5 November when the Gunpowder Plot remembered with fireworks and bonfires.
Hogmanay 1 January. A Scottish custom
Holy Cross Day or Holy Rood Day 14 September
Holy Innocents Day Childermas
Holy Thursday Ascension Day
Lady Day 25 March a Quarter Day in England, Wales and Ireland
Laetare Sunday Medlent Sunday
Lammas Day 1 August. Day on which the loaves made from the first ripe corn were consecrated. A Quarter Day in Scotland. Forerunner of Harvest festivals.
Love Day A day appointed for settlement of disputes. Children born on such a day were sometimes named Loveday
Martinmas 11 November. A Quarter Day in Scotland
Maundy Thursday Thursday before Easter
May Day 1 May. Rural festival, now Labour Day celebrated in 1st Monday in May in England and many other countries.
Michaelmas Day 29 September. A Quarter Day in England, Wales and Ireland
Midsummer Eve 23 June celebrated by Ancient Order of Druids
Midsummer Day 24 June. A Quarter Day in England, Wales and Ireland
Mop Fair Days October. Originally a harvest festival in which employers picked their hired help for the next year.
Mothering Sunday Midlent Sunday, the middle of Lent, but now confused with Mothers' Day.
Mother's Day 2nd Sunday in May in England
Nameday Feast of the saint whose name one bears.
Nettle Day -see Oak Apple Day 29 May when children sting with nettles those not wearing a spring of oak leaves.
Nut Monday 1st Monday in August, a local British holiday
Oak Apple Day Day on which Charles II restored to throne. Oak leaves or oak apples are worn to commemorate the oak tree in which he hid.
Orange Day 12 July Glorious Twelfth
Palm Sunday Sunday before Easter
Pancake Day Shrove Tuesday
Pentecost 7th Sunday after Easter.
Plough Monday 1st Monday after 6 Januray, when farmers resumed ploughing after Christmas holiday
Primrose Day 19 April celebrating death of Benjamin Disraeli
Pulver Wednesday Ash Wednesday 1st day of Lent
Purification Candlemas Day
Quarter Days The 4 days in the year when rents and legacies etc. were paid. They were Lady Day 25 Mar, Midsummer Day 24 June, Michaelmas 29 Sep and Christmas 25 Dec
Red Letter Day Originally a holy day marked on a church calendar in red. Now any special day.
Rogation Sunday 5th Sunday after Easter
Rood Day 14 September. Holy Cross Day
Royal Oak Day 29 May. See Oak Apple Day
St. Distaff's Day 7 January. A mediaeval witticism, the day on which the women (distaff side of family) resumed work after Christmas holiday
St Lubbock's Day Slang expression for a Bank Holiday after man who sponsored Bank Holiday Act 1871
Shrove Tursday Lent begins, day before Ash Wednesday.
Simnel Sunday Mothering Sunday when Simnel cakes were eaten
Trafalgar Day 21 October. Commemorates Lord Nelson and Battle of Trafalgar 1805
Trinity Sunday Sunday following Whit Sunday
Twelfth Night 6 January celebrated with fancy cakes
VE Day 8 May 1945
Victoria Day 24 May Victoria's birthday
Waterloo Day 18 June commemorates defeat of Napoleon at Battle of Waterloo 1815
Whit Sunday and Whit Monday 7th after Easter. A Quarter Day in Scotland



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