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''History will be kind to me for I intend to write it.'' (Sir Winston Churchill)
''History will be kind to me for I intend to write it.'' (Sir Winston Churchill)
<br><br>Here is a good place to tell your reader why you are writing this personal history. Was it because your family or friends wanted you too? Or did you decide to do it on your own? If so, why? What may have motivated you to begin this project can be of help to others who maybe thinking of doing the same thing themselves.
<br><br>Why are you are writing this personal history. Was it because your family or friends wanted you too? Or did you decide to do it on your own? If so, why? What may have motivated you to begin this project can be of help to others who maybe thinking of doing the same thing themselves.  


*How old are you at present?  
*How old are you at present?  
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''There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval.'' (George Santayana)
''There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval.'' (George Santayana)
<br><br>For the first years of your life, you will obviously have to consult with family. If you don’t like taking notes or afraid you’ll not remember all that you were told, you might think about using a audio recorder or camcorder.  
<br><br>For the first years of your life, you will obviously have to consult with family. If you don’t like taking notes or afraid you’ll not remember all that you were told, you might think about using a audio recorder or camcorder. <br>Not only do you have a recording of what was said but you a recording of the person saying it which may be a bonus if they are a relative. If it is a parent or grandparent, it may be the only record your decendents have of them.  
<br>Not only do you have a recording of what was said but you a recording of the person saying it which may be a bonus if they are a relative. If it is a parent or grandparent, it may be the only record your decendents have of them.  


==== Birth  ====
==== Birth  ====
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=== Your Family  ===
=== Your Family  ===


''A family is a unit composed not only of children but of men, women, an occasional animal, and the common cold.'' (Ogden Nash)
''A family is a unit composed not only of children but of men, women, an occasional animal, and the common cold.'' (Ogden Nash) <br><br>Tell us about the family you grew up in. While you’re at it try to get audio or better yet, video recordings of them to pass down. Consider giving these records to your children too.  
<br><br>Tell us about the family you grew up in. While you’re at it try to get audio or better yet, video recordings of them to pass down. Consider giving these records to your children too.  


==== Brothers and Sisters  ====
==== Brothers and Sisters  ====
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=== Teenage Years  ===
=== Teenage Years  ===


''The young always have the same problem - how to rebel and conform at the same time. They have now solved this by defying their parents and copying one another.'' (Quentin Crisp)
''The young always have the same problem - how to rebel and conform at the same time. They have now solved this by defying their parents and copying one another.'' (Quentin Crisp) <br><br>These are questions which deal with what you were learning in the teenage years when you were trying to find yourself and your place in this world.  
<br><br>These are questions which deal with what you were learning in the teenage years when you were trying to find yourself and your place in this world.  


*Did you have a hobby at this time?  
*Did you have a hobby at this time?  
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=== EARLY RELIGIOUS EXPERIENCES  ===
=== EARLY RELIGIOUS EXPERIENCES  ===


''Be silent as to services you have rendered, but speak of favors you have received.'' (Seneca)
''Be silent as to services you have rendered, but speak of favors you have received.'' (Seneca) <br><br>Religion plays a large roll in many of our lives. The questions here are for members of The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter-day Saints. However, they can be reworded if you are a member of some other Christian denomination.  
<br><br>Religion plays a large roll in many of our lives. The questions here are for members of The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter-day Saints. However, they can be reworded if you are a member of some other Christian denomination.  


==== Early Years  ====
==== Early Years  ====
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=== Young Adult  ===
=== Young Adult  ===


''When I was younger, I could remember anything, whether it had happened or not.''(Mark Twain)
''When I was younger, I could remember anything, whether it had happened or not.''(Mark Twain) <br><br>You may have by now made a career choice and were pursuing higher education or additional training in your field of interest. Maybe the military interrupted your plans. You probably were thinking about marriage, too. Here are questions that relate to these major life decisions.  
<br><br>You may have by now made a career choice and were pursuing higher education or additional training in your field of interest. Maybe the military interrupted your plans. You probably were thinking about marriage, too. Here are questions that relate to these major life decisions.  


*How did you feel about yourself at this time?  
*How did you feel about yourself at this time?  
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=== Family Changes  ===
=== Family Changes  ===


''We all have big changes in our lives that are more or less a second chance.'' (Harrison Ford)
''We all have big changes in our lives that are more or less a second chance.'' (Harrison Ford) <br><br>Not all relationships go smoothly. Here are questions if you were divorce and remarriaged.  
<br><br>Not all relationships go smoothly. Here are questions if you were divorce and remarriaged.  


==== Divorce  ====
==== Divorce  ====
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=== Ages 30 - 40  ===
=== Ages 30 - 40  ===


''Age is not a particularly interesting subject. Anyone can get old. All you have to do is live long enough.''(Groucho Marx)
''Age is not a particularly interesting subject. Anyone can get old. All you have to do is live long enough.''(Groucho Marx) <br><br>Life may be settling down to routine by now and you are playing the game of getting ahead in life. Here you can also describe your efforts to teach your children and watch them grow up. For many, thirty marks the end of youth and the real beginning of adulthood.  
<br><br>Life may be settling down to routine by now and you are playing the game of getting ahead in life. Here you can also describe your efforts to teach your children and watch them grow up. For many, thirty marks the end of youth and the real beginning of adulthood.  


*How did you feel on your thirtieth birthday?  
*How did you feel on your thirtieth birthday?  
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=== Ages 40 - 50  ===
=== Ages 40 - 50  ===


''A person is always startled when he hears himself seriously called an old man for the first time.''(Oliver Wendell Holmes)
''A person is always startled when he hears himself seriously called an old man for the first time.''(Oliver Wendell Holmes) <br><br>Your probably thinking about how your life as been up to this point. Here you can tell about your successes in your occupation and/or family.  
<br><br>Your probably thinking about how your life as been up to this point. Here you can tell about your successes in your occupation and/or family.  


*How did you feel about turning forty?  
*How did you feel about turning forty?  
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=== Ages 50 -65  ===
=== Ages 50 -65  ===


''I have enjoyed greatly the second blooming... suddenly you find - at the age of 50, say - that a whole new life has opened before you.'' (Agatha Christie)
''I have enjoyed greatly the second blooming... suddenly you find - at the age of 50, say - that a whole new life has opened before you.'' (Agatha Christie) <br><br>Some go through “mid life crisis” at about this time. You may wonder if you should have taken a different course. You may feel deeply about some failures you have endured. Here is the place to tell about that.  
<br><br>Some go through “mid life crisis” at about this time. You may wonder if you should have taken a different course. You may feel deeply about some failures you have endured. Here is the place to tell about that.  


*How did you feel about turning fifty?  
*How did you feel about turning fifty?  
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=== Retirement  ===
=== Retirement  ===


''It is time I stepped aside for a less experienced and less able man.'' (Scott Elledge)
''It is time I stepped aside for a less experienced and less able man.'' (Scott Elledge) <br><br>Some look forward to this time in their life. They think they can now take it easy and let the world worry about all the things it likes to worry about. But many find life even busier.  
<br><br>Some look forward to this time in their life. They think they can now take it easy and let the world worry about all the things it likes to worry about. But many find life even busier.  


*When did you retire?  
*When did you retire?  
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=== Final Words  ===
=== Final Words  ===


''You may have deceived yourself, but experience is not trying to deceive you. ''(C. S. Lewis)
''You may have deceived yourself, but experience is not trying to deceive you. ''(C. S. Lewis) <br><br>Here you can put any words of wisdom, sum up things learned and say something to each important person in your life.  
<br><br>Here you can put any words of wisdom, sum up things learned and say something to each important person in your life.  


*Say something to each of your children individually.  
*Say something to each of your children individually.